Finding a Roommate in Melbourne: A Single Mum’s Guide to Sharing Space

Yes. You can create a free room listing and include rent, bills, bond, photos, availability, house rules and household details.

Hey there, fellow Melburnians! So, let’s talk about something that’s been on the mind of a certain single mum who’s bravely ventured into the roommate-seeking jungle. If you’re anything like her, you might be wondering where on earth you can find a potential housemate these days. Spoiler alert: it’s not as simple as asking your married friends to move in (sorry, but they probably have enough chaos of their own).

First, let’s set the stage. Our hero is a 38-year-old single mum with a beautiful 4-year-old daughter. She’s been living in her inner-city rental for nearly a decade. That’s like an eternity in Melbourne’s rental market, where prices seem to rise faster than a barista can whip up a flat white. But alas, the time has come for her to consider sharing her lovely abode to keep her financial sanity intact.

Now, if you’re in the same boat, you might be asking: “Where do I even start?” Well, let’s break it down.

1. Online Platforms

Since our mum isn’t on Facebook (shocking, right?), let’s explore some alternatives. Websites like Flatmates.com.au and Roommates.com.au are fantastic places to start. They allow you to create a profile, list your available room, and specify what kind of roommate you’re looking for. Just make sure to include all the perks of living with you—like having their own wing of the house. I mean, who wouldn’t want that?

2. Community Boards

If you’re more of a traditionalist, check out community boards in local cafes, libraries, or even your workplace. You could post a friendly flyer stating you’re looking for a housemate. Just make sure the flyer is bright and eye-catching. You want it to stand out like a neon sign in a dark alley.

3. Networking

Ah, the age-old networking strategy. While it’s true that your married friends might not be ideal candidates, they might know someone who’s looking for a place. So, don’t be shy! Reach out to your social circle and let them know you’re on the hunt. They might surprise you with a lead or two.

4. International Students

Now, this is an interesting suggestion from our mum’s mate. International students can be a great option! They’re often looking for affordable housing, and you might find someone who’s responsible and eager to experience life in Melbourne. Just make sure to vet them properly—no one wants a roommate who thinks it’s okay to host a series of loud parties on weekdays.

5. Local Universities

If you’re leaning towards the international student route, consider reaching out to local universities. Many have housing boards or services that can connect you with students looking for accommodation. Plus, you can set some ground rules from the get-go, which is always a bonus.

6. Roommate Matching Services

There are also roommate matching services out there that can do the hard work for you. They often have a questionnaire to fill out, matching you with potential housemates based on your preferences and lifestyle. It’s like Tinder, but for finding someone to share your living space instead of your life.

7. Safety First

Now, let’s not forget the most important aspect of finding a roommate: safety. Make sure to do your due diligence. Have a chat, meet in a public place, and trust your instincts. If they seem a bit off, they probably are. And no, that’s not just your inner cynic talking; it’s called being smart.

So, there you have it! A guide for single parents and anyone else looking to find a roommate in Melbourne. It may seem daunting, but with a little patience and creativity, you’ll find someone to share your space (and maybe even your Netflix account). And who knows? You might end up with a great friend in the process.

Happy housemate hunting! And remember, if all else fails, there’s always the option of adopting a pet. They may not pay rent, but at least they won’t judge your snack choices!


Inspired by: “Single Mum: Where does one find a potential roommate these days?” (r/melbourne)